Paul Joseph Bates

Hey Paul,

Very slow in my posting a message, not sure if you will be able to see it or read it in any case. I can only hope that somehow you can. I have cried, I have gotten angry, I have probably alienated family and extended family as I tried to cope with losing you. And then I cried again. Sorry about that, I hope that you understand and forgive me for getting upset.

Robin and I will do our best to keep in touch with Jayne and help her in any way we can, or that Jayne may see fit. I believe all of your family and friends will miss you each and every day for the rest of their lives. I know we will.

You and I were very close in our own way. We may not have been in touch each day, but when we did contact each other, it was always a special connection. Robin will always long for you to call early morning November 2nd, and sing her “Happy Birthday”. I miss you, Robin and I both miss you.

I hold hope that I will somehow see you again, that we will somehow see you again.

Love always,
Jim & Robin

Paul, how do I even begin to express my heartbreak? You were a constant in our lives - the younger brother with the big smile and the huge laugh. You were always there, calling every week, coming by for coffee, taking me (Katherine) to get anything you thought was too heavy to carry. You insisted on taking little Luke SkyHopper to every appointment - you had such a big heart and it showed especially in your love and caring for all animals. I still expect the phone to ring with your booming voice saying "YOHO - what's up", or the knock on the door and your "GOOD MORNING" - is the coffee ready?

I (Anne) will miss your calls every week and on every special occasion from birthdays and Christmas, Easter and Mother's Day - I knew you would always be there to remember me - separated by thousands of miles - but always close in thought and caring.

You made light of all of your pain - always optimistic, full of hope that soon, soon, it would be the last scan, MRI, appointment, operation and you would be feeling GREAT. You loved your wife Jayne heart and soul and only wanted to be well enough to take care of her more.
Jayne I cannot even imagine your pain - he was not supposed to leave like this, so suddenly and the shock makes it hard to accept - we forget he's not here and the remembering brings the pain rushing back all over again. We are broken hearted for you and will always be here to support, to listen, to help in anyway you need. We ARE your FAMILY always. We LOVE you.

Paul you are with Mom and Dad and Pam , Sandra, Erica, Billy, Vina and all the others who were there to take you in their arms. You have your wings brother - we will see you on the flip side! Loving you forever - Anne and Katherine

We are so sorry, Jayne, for your loss of Paul. Our deepest condolences to you and to all family and friends. It was such a shock when we got the news of Paul's passing and it still seems so unreal. We said goodbye to Paul that night not knowing if he was still able to hear us. We remember Paul as being a very compassionate soul who loved music, playing his guitar, riding his bike and having good fun. He had a great sense of humor and was always up for a good laugh. You could never mistake that resounding laugh for anyone else. We remember many good times with Paul - camping, family gatherings or just having a good cup of coffee. Paul would always bring his guitar to the family gatherings for a sing-a-long. After our Christmas dinners, we would sing carols and progress into our favourite rock songs as the night wore on. Good times! Paul touched our lives in a very special way. We love and miss you, our brother and friend.

We are all still struggling with Paul's passing. He will be greatly missed, he always had a smile on his face and joy in his heart. Especially when he was with Jayne, the love of his life. They had 25 great years together, Jayne will be left with many great memories. Rest in Peace Paul.

Oh man Paul, I was soo sure you would have plenty more years here. Good man gone too soon. First… I appreciate you & Irma for creating Adrienne. I thank you to have put trust in me since the beginning of our relationship. Thats long ago & will continue, but I was soo sure you'd be here to witness more & much further. You were great as a Tile Setter, & Salesman. It was great to see you be an awesome Grandfather with the children. I appreciate all that you've done. We shall keep you in our hearts & speak of the memories as to not forget. I am soo mad that we didn’t get to visit one more time anywhere recent. There is no negotiating with Death. No preparation, no rehearsal, no Rain cheque. Just… soo sudden man, damn! You will be missed Pablo!! I hope youre doing better where you are now… knowing you, you wont be stationary. Fly everywhere Paul. Any & every where. Ride In Peace.

I didn't know Paul well, but I will remember his contagious laughter.
He almost always seemed to be full of joyfullness and mischief, but you could see it in his eyes, that he held onto a deeper story.
He struck me as a man who did his best in spite of life's many challenges, his own flaws or hurts. He just seemed like a man who tried his best.
Paul was kind to my mother when she needed it most, and there were so very few she could turn to. I will always be grateful to him for this.
I would have liked to get to know you better Paul.
I hope somewhere, he's playing his guitar and belting out a joyful song!
You'll be missed.
My sympathies go out to his family, I'm sorry for you loss.

Dad. The memories I have of you are the motorcycle rides we did almost every other day. Everyone on the block wanted a ride. You were such a hit! The weekend BBQs and music played so loud, you’d invite the whole block. I looked at you in awe. My Dad is so awesome. You let me learn and grow. You were an awesome Grand father, Dad & Friend. Love always your daughter

I will never forget your face smiling, your contagious laughter and the loved feeling you extended. You are and always will be my Father My Hero. I Love you 💕

I'm so sorry, Jayne, for your loss. My condolences to you and the family and friends that were dear to Paul.

Uncle Paul's contagious laughter. When he played guitar and sang we all joined in. My fondest memories are Christmas carols.

Dear Jayne, words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. What a sudden and shocking loss of your dear Paul. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you much love and hugs ♥️