In Memory
Paul Joseph Bates
November 23rd, 1956 - May 14th, 2025
Paul passed away on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, in his 68th year.
He will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Jayne of 25 years; daughter, Adrienne (Richard); grandkids, Richard and Karmalienna; son, Matthew (Zachary); step-son, Kristopher (Elizabeth); step-grandkids, Madeline and Henry; siblings, Joe Jr, Tom (Jan), Anne (Oliver), Phillip (Linda), Katherine, Jim (Robin); and many nieces and nephews.
He was pre-deceased by his parents, Joe Sr and Fannie; sisters, Sandra and Pamela; and brother-in-law, Oliver.
Paul enjoyed his music, a good laugh, being outside, as well as a good road trip.
Thank you to the doctors and nurses at the Foothill Hospital Emergency Room and ICU unit B for providing compassionate care and support for Paul in his final hours of need.
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts in Paul’s honour are gratefully accepted to support Calgary Health Foundation. You can go online to: givehealth.ca/paulbates and dedicate a gift on the donation page.
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Tom and Jan Bates
2 days ago
We are so sorry, Jayne, for your loss of Paul. Our deepest condolences to you and to all family and friends. It was such a shock when we got the news of Paul's passing and it still seems so unreal. We said goodbye to Paul that night not knowing if he was still able to hear us. We remember Paul as being a very compassionate soul who loved music, playing his guitar, riding his bike and having good fun. He had a great sense of humor and was always up for a good laugh. You could never mistake that resounding laugh for anyone else. We remember many good times with Paul - camping, family gatherings or just having a good cup of coffee. Paul would always bring his guitar to the family gatherings for a sing-a-long. After our Christmas dinners, we would sing carols and progress into our favourite rock songs as the night wore on. Good times! Paul touched our lives in a very special way. We love and miss you, our brother and friend.
Shelly and Ray Willits
4 days ago
We are all still struggling with Paul's passing. He will be greatly missed, he always had a smile on his face and joy in his heart. Especially when he was with Jayne, the love of his life. They had 25 great years together, Jayne will be left with many great memories. Rest in Peace Paul.
R.W. Thompson III
4 days ago
Oh man Paul, I was soo sure you would have plenty more years here. Good man gone too soon. First… I appreciate you & Irma for creating Adrienne. I thank you to have put trust in me since the beginning of our relationship. Thats long ago & will continue, but I was soo sure you'd be here to witness more & much further. You were great as a Tile Setter, & Salesman. It was great to see you be an awesome Grandfather with the children. I appreciate all that you've done. We shall keep you in our hearts & speak of the memories as to not forget. I am soo mad that we didn’t get to visit one more time anywhere recent. There is no negotiating with Death. No preparation, no rehearsal, no Rain cheque. Just… soo sudden man, damn! You will be missed Pablo!! I hope youre doing better where you are now… knowing you, you wont be stationary. Fly everywhere Paul. Any & every where. Ride In Peace.
Dustin
4 days ago
I didn't know Paul well, but I will remember his contagious laughter.
He almost always seemed to be full of joyfullness and mischief, but you could see it in his eyes, that he held onto a deeper story.
He struck me as a man who did his best in spite of life's many challenges, his own flaws or hurts. He just seemed like a man who tried his best.
Paul was kind to my mother when she needed it most, and there were so very few she could turn to. I will always be grateful to him for this.
I would have liked to get to know you better Paul.
I hope somewhere, he's playing his guitar and belting out a joyful song!
You'll be missed.
My sympathies go out to his family, I'm sorry for you loss.
He almost always seemed to be full of joyfullness and mischief, but you could see it in his eyes, that he held onto a deeper story.
He struck me as a man who did his best in spite of life's many challenges, his own flaws or hurts. He just seemed like a man who tried his best.
Paul was kind to my mother when she needed it most, and there were so very few she could turn to. I will always be grateful to him for this.
I would have liked to get to know you better Paul.
I hope somewhere, he's playing his guitar and belting out a joyful song!
You'll be missed.
My sympathies go out to his family, I'm sorry for you loss.
Adrienne Thompson
5 days ago
Dad. The memories I have of you are the motorcycle rides we did almost every other day. Everyone on the block wanted a ride. You were such a hit! The weekend BBQs and music played so loud, you’d invite the whole block. I looked at you in awe. My Dad is so awesome. You let me learn and grow. You were an awesome Grand father, Dad & Friend. Love always your daughter
Adrienne
5 days ago
I will never forget your face smiling, your contagious laughter and the loved feeling you extended. You are and always will be my Father My Hero. I Love you 💕
Denise Burzminski
5 days ago
I'm so sorry, Jayne, for your loss. My condolences to you and the family and friends that were dear to Paul.
Sophie Bates (mom) Mainville
6 days ago
Uncle Paul's contagious laughter. When he played guitar and sang we all joined in. My fondest memories are Christmas carols.
Joy Soepono
1 week ago
Dear Jayne, words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. What a sudden and shocking loss of your dear Paul. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you much love and hugs ♥️